Wondering how I get into these things

Okay, so I have only been single for a half a minute. Well like a week this time. My ex and I have been on again off again for the last three months or so. Before that we were together for six years. Minus his yearly week to month long hiatuses.

So I blew off a lot of friends during that time trying to make him happy, dealt with other women, and more drama that anyone should in a lifetime.

I guess I'm trying to make it up to everyone. So I'm supposed to go see friends out of town this weekend but another friend who never gets weekend nights off has tonight off and wants me to go out with her. Tried to get out of it and she has a way to cover every reason I have not to go. So I'm going then I'm gonna go out of town tomorrow morning to see my other friends.

I feel pulled in a million different directions. Damn am I this much of a people pleaser? How do I stop being that?

BG

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